In a nutshell..
Observe yourself and sit with yourself until you are bathing in unconditional love for the powerful and magical being that you already are.
Then purify your masculine and feminine lineages within you in such way that the illusion of separation is dissolved.
Then speak into Creation your intention. Claim your readiness and have patience. Enjoy your life.
Soon you will attract the one who will meet you in the exact same way that you already met yourself and more. Get ready, it will get juicy, multidimensional, sacred, yet playful, innocent, grounded.
Of course there are many layers to it and we can explore for ages, but in a nutshell, this is what it comes down to.
Inner Union attracts outer Union. It is law.
Are you ready?